
Over the course of our time in the public eye of Christendom, there has been a lot of opposition to the way we go about doing things–how we confront error, the delivery of some of our messages, and the aggressive nature towards certain doctrines, traditions, and mindsets that we have taken.
From the get-go, let me clarify that you will never hear any of us proclaiming that people whom we feel are incorrect doctrinally in the church are “false prophets” or “false teachers” the way that you can see so frequently thrown around towards anyone who is even remotely considering walking in the supernatural.
You will not see us malign anyone’s character or their intentions, their heart towards God or their heart towards other people. You will not see us do anything to seek to damage anyone’s reputation, accuse people falsely, or have any malicious intent towards others. You will not see us doing things to discredit the worth of people or their ministries.
That’s called slander. There are a ton of people who build their entire “ministries” by tearing down others. We will not do that. Ever.
What you will see and likely have seen is that we unashamedly confront mindsets and traditions that are very prevalent in the church today that keep people in bondage.
We wouldn’t have the majority of the New Testament if Paul didn’t think it was important to confront error and teach Truth. Most of his letters were letters of correction to well-intentioned but incorrect churches who were steeped in error.
The trouble and the tension with what we do is as follows:
Since so many people are so emotionally and mentally attached to what they do (performance) and the ministries/teachers they respect and listen to, if anything that those well-respected teachers preaches is even mildly confronted or corrected by anything we’ve put out, people have had a tendency to put up a huge wall and get offended, leading to them (the hearers) shutting down or slandering us.
So we are faced with an interesting dilemma–one that was shared, I am quite sure, with Jesus and the apostles as they came on the scene preaching a message that, quite literally, was diametrically opposed to the popular teachings of the religious leaders of their day.
They weren’t persecuted because they were nice to everybody and wandered around talking like Mr. Rogers.
They were persecuted because if what they were preaching was indeed Truth, that meant that everybody around them was wrong.
But Truth is Truth. And once you know Truth, it sets you free (John 8:32).
What most people don’t know, is that there is a condition on Jesus’ statement of Truth setting you free:
“…Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:31-32
If you are not holding to Jesus’ teaching, by His own words, you aren’t really His disciple and you don’t know the Truth, and you are not free.
We try to do everything that is in our ability to show spiritually starved people what Jesus really said, what He really did, and the vastly amazing implications that has for you as one who profess Him as your Lord and Savior.
Unfortunately, a lot of what is taught in the church today is not what Jesus taught and actually is diametrically opposed to what He taught and especially the finished work that He did on Calvary to atone for sins and pay for your freedom.
So naturally, we get some pretty heated flack from those whose traditions and mindsets and doctrines we confront.
And two of the most frequently used oppositions to anything we have said, done, or teach are the following:
- “You must walk in ‘honor’…don’t be ‘dishonoring’!
- “You can’t just speak the truth…you have to speak the truth ‘in love’!
I am going to do my best to address this issue of honor.
The “speaking the truth in love” thing is so frequently thrown out it’s essentially the person saying:
“I am agreeing that what you are saying is true, but because the way you said it hurt my feelings a little bit, I am perceiving that as unloving, and therefore I am going to ignore the fact that what you said is true and thus stay the same in my lies.”
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In regards to HONOR
Centuries ago, honor meant standing up and fighting for what was right no matter the cost.
Honor was a whole lot more than treating someone nicely and being friendly and jovial towards that which defied freedom.
Honor certainly was not blindly accepting or believing something someone said simply because of who said it.
I believe that is called being naïve.
Honor meant openly defying tyrannical oppression and defending, sometimes violently, the cause of righteousness and truth despite the persecution that vehemently came their way.
Honor meant being willing to confront someone, unafraid of consequences, because that person was harming someone innocent. It meant loving a person so much that you were willing to have your intentions be misunderstood for the sake of standing for truth and setting them free with it.
That is honor.
Religion today teaches that “honor” is just blind, dumb submission that doesn’t ask questions.
Religion today teaches that “honor” is obedience to what man says, yet ignoring what God has already said.
Religion today teaches that “honor” is not correcting anybody, not standing up and saying that certain messages or teachings are wrong, all for the sake of “love” and “unity”.
And I would propose to you that is all a lie from the pit of hell.
The devil doesn’t have to work very hard to keep the church running in circles. Man-made doctrines about “honor” and “walking in love” are working a fine job doing just that by keeping Christians SILENT about the very issues that are keeping people in bondage.
The Bible calls that “fear of man”, “people pleasing”, “ear tickling”, and “flattery”.
HONOR is to do to others what you would have them do to you.
HONOR is to fight for what is RIGHT, and GOOD, and TRUE despite the cost and despite all of the slanderous accusations and lies that will be railed at you for doing so.
“He has honor if he holds himself to a [righteous] ideal of conduct thought it is inconvenient, unprofitable, or dangerous to do so.” – Walter Lippman
“Nobody can acquire honor by doing what is wrong.” – Thomas Jefferson
I would add that it is not honoring to sit idly by when you know that something is being spread or taught that is not in alignment with the teachings of Christ.
“All that is required for evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing.” – Edward Burke
It IS honoring to ask questions. It IS honoring to confront error with Truth. It IS honoring and it IS loving to stand up for Truth because that is precisely what Jesus, the apostles, and so many martyrs throughout the ages have done as they have given their last breath to stand for righteousness and the finished work of the cross.
How “honoring” were the apostles by today’s standards in Acts 4:18-20 and Acts 5:29 when they boldly and brazenly refused to “submit to leadership” or “honor the authority” of those ‘churches’?
How “honoring” was Jesus when He called the leaders of His day “sons of the devil” for how much they were burdening other people and teaching man-made tradition? (Matthew 15, Matthew 23, Mark 7)
How “honoring” was Paul when he said if anybody taught a gospel contrary to the one he taught, that they should be eternally condemned? (Gal. 1:1-10)
“The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, And recovery of sight to the blind,To set at liberty those who are oppressed;To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD.” – Luke 4:18-19
Honor is setting the oppressed free and bringing good news to those who have been downtrodden and heavy-laden.
THAT is honor.
Anything less falls miserably short of what God ever designed “honor” to be.
And now that you have seen what the Father sent Jesus to do:
“…Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent ME, so I am sending YOU.” – John 20:21
Real honor fights for what is right and good.
Real honor fights for what is True.
Real honor fights despite people misunderstanding intentions.
Real honor stands up against that which enslaves the innocent and helpless.
Real honor opens the eyes of the blind and unstops the ears of the deaf.
Real honor defies tyranny.
Real honor does not compromise for the sake of making people feel good.
Real honor cares more about the freedom of people than the comfort of those who spread lies and are in bondage.
It always comes back to JESUS.
“Honoring people does not mean putting up with lies, it means dismantling them no matter who says them. It’s not honor or love to defend stupid stuff because your pastor or favorite preacher says it. It’s quite the opposite.
The kind of “honor” that is so popular in church today kills people; it’s a devil.
Real honor will never compromise the Truth of Jesus just so it can get along with people, but it will die fighting for Him. Hebrews 11 is what real honor looks like. The life of Jesus is what real honor looks like.” - Daniel Silva
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I hope you have been as impacted by this as I was by writing it and the understanding of what it really should look like to “be honoring”.